Combined Finances

Combined Finances

This post is for the married couples out there. I know a couple friends who are married and still don’t combine their finances. They really don’t have a clue about each others finance’s. They are doing well, but it always shocks me as to why they don’t combine their finances.

I ask them why and they say it’s working the way it is. They both have their own accounts and then have a separate account for the household. Weekly they will both throw in some money to cover the household expenses. Mortgage, bills etc. One of them generally buys the groceries each week. They don’t have to worry about their spending since they each have their own accounts.

I think this is a horrible way of doing things, it’s sloppy and most likely more work. First off you don’t have to be married to combine your finance’s. I always said marriage is just a expensive title. If you and your spouse have been together for a long time and you trust each other why not combine your finances. There is so many benefits to having combined finances.

One Account, One Card

Me and my wife have one chequing account, and one credit card with both our names on it. All payments come and go to that one chequing account. It’s clean, we both can see what comes and go’s and have a exact idea of how much money we have for life expenses / investing/ giving. It also saves on bank fees having only one account =) Sure me and her could go blow the whole account and be broke. But luckily shes on the same page as me and doesn’t like to blow money.

The only downside I see to this is gifts. I look at our accounts often and try to keep that credit card balance at 0 dollars religiously! She always says it sucks at my birthday or Christmas when she needs to buy me something and I can see where she bought stuff. Ie a sports collectible store it’s pretty obvious that’s a gift for me! I tell her to just pull out cash and the problem is eliminated.

Friends have brought up the concept of they can buy whatever they want with their own accounts though. Yeah that is true, but me and the wife generally buy whatever we like although if its over $100 we generally talk about it first. (Some of you may be shocked at that) You talk about each 100 dollar purchase? haha we talk about a lot of 50 dollar purchases as well. Most stuff over 50 bucks you really don’t need and would that money be better off invested or used for something else?


Ok so that’s the basics of sharing your chequing account. But what if you shared every account? I generally manage all our money. (In a way this bugs me because when I die will she know what to do? I try to teach her) Anyways I used to have to log into her account and add money to her RRSP or TFSA but the bank brought up some term (I forgot what its called) But she had to sign some paperwork and now when I log into my account I see her TFSA and RRSP’s now too! I can now contribute to her accounts within mine.

Now when I log into my one bank account I can see all our accounts. The chequing account, the credit card, MY tfsa, Her tfsa, Her RRSP, Our son’s RESP and our Mortgage. Can’t get much simpler than that. Oh plus we don’t pay those annoying bank fees anymore. We used to pay a $10.95 service fee each month, by having all these accounts together banking is now free.


By seeing our total combined finances in our chequing account it lets us know how much we can invest. Whatever investment account we would like to throw money at, we do. Me and the wife have a clear view of our financial situation, there is no question of is she/her saving for retirement? Do they carry alot of debt?

combined finances

I think by sharing your accounts in the open it makes finance’s that much simplier, cuts down on cost’s and makes your financial future that much clearer! You two are in it for the long haul, do it together!

Curious if you are a couple do you share your accounts? Why not?

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone! I’m thankful for a lot of things, you the reader’s are one of them….. Thanks.

Go Leafs Go!

9 Responses

  1. John R says:

    One only Bank account in both names + my wife has her own individual account that she opened when we started receiving old age pension.

    Up till my retirement with me being the only wage earner I paid for everything. Once we both started receiving pensions, then all household bills & every other expense is split 50/50.

    Any interest/investment income is also 50/50

    Our income is as close to equal on both sides.

    • Nice system. What made u guys switch?

      • John R says:

        We went from the one joint bank account to adding an account for my wife for several reasons.

        1) now having dual income, pensions & separate investment portfolios

        2) equal share of all expenses based on the fact that we set it up that we had equal income & the fact that in the event I popped off first she would know her way around the bills & finances

        3) That it stuck home after my MIL died age 83 when my FIL (who was then 85) had never in 60 years of marriage handled the money or the bills & the fact that he was lost not knowing what to do next & said his part in the marriage had always been to work, give his wife the pay packet, she did the rest…..old school I suppose.

        He is now 98, knows how the money works & that’s after we spent nearly two years getting his head around it after MIL died.

        And yes he has a will, he is tight fisted, sits on his money & assets & says ‘wait till I die’ before you get anything. We just nod & smile because we don’t need his money.

        • Haha great reasons.
          sorry to hear about your mil. Its sooo true thats what i worry about with my wife and i try to keep her in the game. Knowing what bills got paid etc etc. Not needing his money is great! Cheers john

  2. Leo T. Ly says:

    Happy belated thanksgiving.

    I do believe in combining our finances as a family. It’s much easier to plan and maximize our tax benefits, especially the RRSP. Currently, my account is a bit higher in value compared to my wife’s. I the near future, I hope to open a spousal RRSP account for her so eventually, her account value will be equivalent to mine. When we retire, we will pay less taxes as a family.

  3. Cris says:

    I believe in combining the finances as a family as I strongly believe in the meaning of word FAMILY. There are situations where you might have some separate accounts (we have one for my wife where she is getting paid from a part-time job and help with filling the taxes) but, no more then financial/taxes advantage purpose.
    What if something will happen with one of you? Unless there is a joint account, the other can not do anything in that account?
    I know people having everything separate but, also I can see that they are having their family life quite “separate”. This might not apply to everybody but the risk and temptations are there.
    The musketeer motto: All for one and one for all!

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